Pull Me Closer

 A DIY self-paced program to re-ignite the spark, deepen your connection and experience a truly nourishing intimacy with your partner

i want this!

More Desire

More Attraction

More Passion

Let’s be honest.

You are no longer truly satisfied in your relationship. It’s time for a change.

You love your partner deeply. And you find yourself trapped between this deep love and unfulfilled desires. Is this just a phase? Or is this your reality… 

Let’s find out...

Bite-Sized 
Content

Our modules are delivered in different formats (video, audio & pdf) for easy implementation. You choose what serves you best and go at your own pace. Bit by bit, step by step, see the shifts happening.

Premium
Workbook 

For a more sensual experience, use your premium physical workbook to work on the exercises either solo or alongside your partner. Out in a café or in the sun, on the couch or in your bedroom. Away from screens, old-fashioned, your book, your pen and you. 

Designed for
 a lifetime

If you want to see the change right now or revisit in the future, this is Transformational Education for a lifetime. Pick what you need, do the work, see the results. You decide when to do each topic based on the transformation you need right now. Your Relationship Book and materials to grab at any time. 

Pull Me Closer

Feel the desire coming back and experience the nourishing intimacy you’re longing for.


This is created for couples who know they need a change.

Imagine there is a simple code to apply to experience a playful, passionate and nourishing intimacy (again). 

Where there is no “either / or”.

Where you can have safety, love and comfort as well as the rush, passion and adventure. This code will help you experience the natural pull of not getting enough of each other.

pre-launch price

$2,500

i want this!

$3,500

By signing up to the waiting list, you secure yourself the pre-launch price of $2,500 (instead of $3,500). 

The Connection and 
Intimacy Code™

The Connection and Intimacy Code™ is a 3-pillar framework that any relationship can use to experience a vibrant and nourishing intimacy. 

PILLAR 1

Honest Communication

The first step in any relationship is to build and sustain a foundation of trust and connection. This can only happen when we continuously communicate honestly what is going inside (mentally and emotionally). 

PILLAR 2

Polarity (Attraction)

Attraction is the bridge between connection and intimacy (or sex). To build this magnetic energy we have to constantly nurture the polarity between the masculine essence of the man and the feminine essence of the woman. 

PILLAR 3

Nourishing Intimacy

Nourishing intimacy is when love-making takes a new other level, away from the default, where the deep connection and the attraction lead to a blissful experience that nourishes both your body and soul.

testimonials

Wow! We are impressed.

"WOW!! We are impressed. Such a deep, extensive and thoughtfully created program. This is truly for a lifetime. We got so much out of it and it helped us creating such a different connection and intimacy as what we had before. Wow. As if we would be back to the beginning when being in the honeymoon phase. Yet simply even better, because we’ve been together for such a long time, so now we get to enjoy both sides. The blissful and new spark and pull towards each other as well as the deep, known and familiar safety and trust we had, what we could even deepen more. Cleaning the BS what was standing between us and filling it with new habits, behavior, knowledge and routines. Bravo B&L and thank you from the bottom of our hearts!"

– J.S.

This brought us so much deeper together.

“I actually wouldn’t have believed that we reach that point of such transparency and deep connection. After years of holding secrets being able to speak about everything and having no more secrets, nothing more to hide. This is huge for us. This brought us so much deeper together. No more fear of expressing whatever is present and no more ego / trigger moments, because we’ve learned and understood so much about our inner worlds and woundings (what we could heal through the program as well).”

– A.B.

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This brought us so much deeper together.

“I actually wouldn’t have believed that we reach that point of such transparency and deep connection. After years of holding secrets being able to speak about everything and having no more secrets, nothing more to hide. This is huge for us. This brought us so much deeper together. No more fear of expressing whatever is present and no more ego / trigger moments, because we’ve learned and understood so much about our inner worlds and woundings (what we could heal through the program as well).”

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This brought us so much deeper together.

“I actually wouldn’t have believed that we reach that point of such transparency and deep connection. After years of holding secrets being able to speak about everything and having no more secrets, nothing more to hide. This is huge for us. This brought us so much deeper together. No more fear of expressing whatever is present and no more ego / trigger moments, because we’ve learned and understood so much about our inner worlds and woundings (what we could heal through the program as well).”

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Your conversations end in arguments, fights or disagreements

You are avoiding difficult conversations

You are having issues expressing your true desires

Is Communication Your #1 Challenge?

Then we'd recommend you start with the first pillar of the Connection & Intimacy Code™.

Let’s Talk About It 

MASTER HONEST COMMUNICATION

The foundation every relationship needs

This is for you if: 

To understand yourself and your partner better

To be able to communicate so it leads to actual change 

To experience a deeper connection

You will learn everything you need:

pre-launch Price

i want this!

$999

$1,500

By signing up to the waiting list, you secure yourself the pre-launch price of $999 (instead of $1,500).

Your Questions, Answered

No, our programs have a big chunk of solo work and are designed for a lifetime so it’s easy to start even if you are single. Whenever you meet someone or begin a new relationship, you will be able to use the full scope of materials and exercises. 

Absolutely. Our programs include a big chunk of solo work, and even that alone can provoke meaningful change in your relationship. You can always invite your partner when the time feels right.

No, it’s private by design for you to enjoy with your partner.

No. Brad & Lola have a self-empowering and self-responsible approach. We provide the tools, exercises and education you need to transform your relationship. Establish a deeper connection as well as a nourishing intimacy, so that your relationship feels vibrant (again). 

This can happen as a result of doing inner work. Within the first modules of our program, you will gain more clarity on the right path for your relationship. 

If within the first three months of purchasing Pull Me Closer or Let's Talk About It you choose to end your relationship, we offer the option to transition into our guided program, The Conscious BreakUp.

This transition comes at no additional cost if you purchased Pull Me Closer, or for only the price difference if you purchased Let's Talk About It.

Your lifetime access to the original program remains intact, and we will guide you through a conscious separation process with your current partner. We honor wherever your journey takes you.

Inside of the programs Pull Me Closer and Let's Talk About It, you get the possibility to book 1:1 sessions for an additional fee.